Saturday, June 27, 2015

The Big Picture is Pride

Yesterday, social media was flooded with the announcement that the Supreme Court passed a ruling for marriage equality in all 50 US states.  To honor this momentous, historic occasion, I reposted this picture, originally posted by the "Human Rights Campaign" Facebook group:

My caption read: "How awesome is this?  At least some things are getting changed for the better."

Despite an overwhelming majority of my news feed being overrun with celebration regarding marriage equality and Pride Week, I quickly received comments on this post that I found disappointing (to say the least).  I expressed to my commenters how much I dislike arguing politics and my refusal to do so, but also my disappointment in their unsupportive comments.

Rather than dropping into an all-out, drag-out, heated Facebook fight, I was inspired to go even further with my pro-marriage-equality posts and support of Pride Week via Facebook.  My posts that followed were:

Pretty self-explanatory.  Really, if it is something that someone is seriously against, I don't think losing them as a Facebook friend is too much of a loss.


Loved this.  I changed my profile picture just to add a rainbow filter over top by going to facebook.com/celebratepride.  


I understand that some people are upset by the Supreme Court taking the decision away from the individual states.  "Big Government is bad!"  I agree with the general sentiment.  But look at the big picture: the fight for marriage equality in the US is over!  Everyone is free to marry, without antiquated restrictions of gender or sex.  This is an amazing moment in history that we are living!  I have been pro- marriage equality and gay rights since I was old enough to understand sex.  Now I get to see our nation growing and maturing before my very eyes.  That's one hell of a big picture.


Supporting a cause and staying true to my beliefs is far more important to me than arguing over them with people who are just as decided as I am.  I will openly tell you about where I stand on an issue any day of the week.  I will gladly give you my opinions on a matter that you'd like to be informed on.  I will hear your side and acknowledge your opinions, as well.  Just don't expect a hot debate or healthy argument.  It's just not how I roll.

Friday, June 26, 2015

Listography Nerd Gets Hungry

Today's post is a brainless one with no point.
Yup.

The other night I was super tired but couldn't sleep, so I started compiling a list of my favorite foods.  If there are two things that I have an unnatural amount of love for, they are lists and food.  All rolled into one..... it's a way to pass the time.

PRE-MADE SNACK STUFF
Italian Rose salsa
Southwestern Ranch Baked Lays (dicontinued)
Spicy Cayenne & Cheese Kettle Cooked Lays (discontinued)
Krunchers BBQ potato chips
Munchies jalapeno cheddar sandwich crackers (previously Doritos branded)
Snyder's mustard & onion pretzels
Cashwes
Pizza Rools, three meat flavor
Tickle Me Pickles spicy dill pickle spears

ACTUAL FOOD
Grits, overcooked, with salt only
Tutto Mare
Seafood gumbo
Seafood bisque
Corn chowder
Mashed potatoes with corn mixed in
Anchovy caesar dressing

PROTEIN
Crab legs
Spicy venison slim jims
Andouille sausage

FRUIT
Rambutan
Strawberries
Blackberries
Peaches
Zucchini

NON-FRUIT PRODUCE
Yellow and green onions
Sweet green peas
Corn
Red potatoes

SWEET STUFF
Chocolate covered strawberries
Terry's chocolate oranges
Life cinnamon cereal
Reese's Puffs cereal
Breyer's Birthday Blast ice cream
Ben & Jerry's cake batter ice cream
Starburst FlavoReds
Green apple licorice
Jelly Belly buttered popcorn jelly beans
SourPatch watermelon

ASIAN FOODS
Okonomi yaki
Shumai
Plain fried rice with extra onion
Hot & sour soup
Spicy Japanese mayo
Tao Kae Noi crispy seaweed
Gim rolls
Veggie mandu

DRINKS
Chocolate milk
Pepsi
Peach Vesss
Appletiser


I have a weird palate.  And a weird way of passing the time.  But since I'm a geek about both lists and food, I found this post suitable enough.

Monday, June 15, 2015

The General Public's Ice Cubes are Bogus

It has been a little over a month since my last post, I realize this.  I was working on a riveting homemade soup review when the universe threw me one of its biggest curve balls yet.  My mother-in-law passed very suddenly, and thus a whirlwind of things very un-soup related ensued.

As part of the memorial service, my husband and I received a potted phalaenopsis orchid.  That's what this post is about.  Don't scroll away just yet.  I'm not a gardening buff, either.

I have a habit of boasting my crafts and projects all over cyberspace, specifically through my "Creations" album on Facebook and my "Gillynze Says" board on Pinterest.  However, I've never been one to have a green thumb.  I was apprehensive about this orchid, as they are notoriously difficult to care for.  My mother loves orchids, and could not sustain hers despite her best efforts.  I settled the orchid in our kitchen and set about administering a regimen of 2 ice cubes a week like I had been told.

First I noticed two flower blooms had fallen.

Then three more.

Crap.

Time to do some homework.

I googled orchid care.  Of course there are thousands of species of orchids.  Of course.  I figured that mine would be a fairly common variety, and tried to find a similar picture.  Once I found what I thought I might be looking for, I read website after website and watched several YouTube videos.  Oh the things you can learn from the Internet.


  • Ice Cubes Bad!: There are some orchids that can thrive via this method, but I didn't find a single legit website that used it.  The suggested method is to flood the orchid with tepid tap water for several minutes, and then to let it drain completely.  Watering is usually needed every 7-10 days.
  • Wrong Pot: My orchid came in a basic white ceramic pot.  The ideal media is a clear, plastic pot with several draining ports.  Not being able to find this, I opted for a ceramic pot with a large draining hole in the bottom.  The draining is the important part; orchids are susceptible to root rot.
  • Roots: They should be green in color and fleshy in texture.  They will grow stiffer and silver in color when they are thirsty.  Isn't that nifty?  They let you know when they need a drink!  But when they are crunchy and papery, that part of the root is dead.
  • Leaves: You shouldn't leave standing water on the leaves, as this too will cause rot.  Like the roots, the color of the leaves will tell you whether they are getting enough sun.  Talkative little plant, this orchid!
I also read up on their need for fertilizer, how to cut orchid spikes and encourage regrowth, and the type of material they should be potted in.  So I went to the garden center, bought some supplies, and got to work.

Once I repotted the orchid, I could see the poor little roots.  They were rigid and silver.  Ice cubes were just not cutting it.  I flooded it, drained it, and set it in the window for a few hours.  When I came back, the roots were already green!!!  I pruned off some dead ends from the roots, and now she's sitting pretty!
I so wish I had a "before" picture.  You'd be stunned.  Guess you'll just have to trust me on this one, lol.

So what?

So I've never rehabbed a plant in my life.  With a little research, I fixed up my pretty little phalaenopsis orchid!  Good things happen when you put nerd powers to use.

Also, the idea that we shouldn't follow blindly to what everyone else says feels reinforced by this project.  It has generally been my experience that people are unreliable, especially when it is the "general public."  Coming from me, that is phrasing it kindly.  ;-)


Friday, May 1, 2015

An Hourglass's Issues with Angels and Non-Angels

There has been a fair amount of buzz about the #ImNoAngel campaign that is being promoted by Lane Bryant.  That's not surprising.  But there are a couple of points that I want to bring to the forefront.

Overall, I am supportive of the #ImNoAngel concept.
These women are sexy!  That's just undeniable, and the black & white commercial flaunts their smokin' hot curves perfectly.  I'm loving the promotion of self-love, portraying curves as sexy, and perpetuating the ever-growing trend that size 14 is sexier than a size 0.  These are all messages that I am behind 100%.

The snarky attack at Victoria's Secret is a big plus.
The #ImNoAngel campaign is (not so subtly) a challenge to Victoria's Secret's "Perfect Body" campaign.  VS has always featured their lanky, thin "Angels" in catalogues and commercials.  Pasting the words "perfect body" over these unattainable barbies was just too much.  Maybe it is just the sarcasm and callousness that has built inside of me for so many years, but I love a good snark factor.

However, it is an obvious marketing strategy.
While I love the message from Lane Bryant and the delight in the challenge against Victoria's Secret, it is very clear that this is one great big marketing ploy.  The hashtag, for one, just screams for attention.  The line of lingerie is actually called Cacique, but they lopped on an Angel-related slogan (complete with screaming hashtag), despite having nothing to do with the line.  While it is smart on their part, I have a hard time respecting cheap ploys like this one.

Body image, eating disorders, obesity.... these are all very hot issues.  Taking advantage of them to the benefit of your company is shameful.  I'd be much more receptive if Lane Bryant's campaign weren't tied to a line of lingerie at all, and was just about the message.  It would still be an effective marketing tool for their brand, but perhaps not so overtly scummy.

Despite how you feel about either company, here's my real issue....
There is a lot of attention on what size you are.  Victoria's Secret caters to what I affectionately call "skinny bitches."  Lane Bryant caters to what they have rebranded as "her size."  When it comes to clothing, I don't have trouble finding my size.  I have trouble finding my fit.  Confused?

I am a textbook hourglass: the waist measurement is 10" less than the bust, while the bust and hip measurements are nearly the same.  Trying to find clothes that flatter an hourglass but simultaneously do not give the appearance of pregnancy is extremely challenging.  To further compound the issue, I am 5'4", but somehow both short legged and short in torso.  This means that my hourglass is even more dramatic, and most pants are too long.

I am all for the promotion of a positive body image.  I don't think the general public is represented in TV, movies, magazines, advertisements, or any major media outlet.  However, how much meat you have on those bones isn't the only issue.
What about how that body is shaped?



Here's the Lane Bryant Cacique commercial, in case you are dying of curiosity.
By the way, they sell sizes 14-28.  These models are all sizes 12-14.  How's that for irony?
Fun fact #2: Cacique is a word used in the Caribbean to mean "chief."  Also, it's a brand of cheese.

Tuesday, April 28, 2015

A Visually Impaired Take on "Daredevil"

The husband and I have not had cable since maybe 2011, so I watch a lot of Netflix and Hulu.  Often times, I find myself with nothing to watch in between new episodes of Supernatural on Hulu.  So hubs and I started watching the Netflix original series of Daredevil.
2003 Daredevil (Affleck)

I saw the Ben Affleck flick years ago when it was new, and found it entertaining enough.  Superhero movies weren't as big yet as they are now.  It was 2003, so I also hadn't been diagnosed with Stargardt's yet.  I'll admit that most of my existing Daredevil knowledge comes from this early 2000's film.  I've accrued slightly more trivia over the years, along with the realization that Daredevil is definitely not the most popular or most "OP" of the Marvel heroes.
2015 Daredevil (Cox)

Matt Murdoch aka Daredevil is a blind man with super senses due to an accident involving chemicals.  Super hearing, super sensitive to touch, awesome olfactory, and I assume some pretty pumped up taste buds.  Pretty cool.  I realize it comes with consequences, but I wouldn't turn these super senses down.  Here's my beef.

  • He can hear a conversation from a rooftop or from blocks away.  The scene where he is kicking Vladmir's ass?  The cops get the jump on him.  Shouldn't he have heard them coming long before they arrived?  I mean, maybe he was really into the pummeling, but there were a lot of cops.  That's a lot of noise.
  • The guy obviously doesn't need his cane to get around.  I assume this is his attempt at pulling a "Clark Kent" persona of a normal blind guy.  If that is the case, he is doing a terrible job.  My biggest pet peeve:  He is way too good at looking people in the eye.
  • I posed the question of how Murdoch picks things up off the ground in one simple swipe.  Hubs suggested that vibrations and sounds let him "see" it, in his way.  I guess.  But what about Stick?  How does Stick seem to have the same super senses that Murdoch does?  Being blind and bad-ass doesn't give you super powers.  I promise.
  • With his other four senses all suped up, he gets around Hell's Kitchen with ease.  However, this dude still needs braille to read.  You can't smell, taste, or hear the written word.  That means that he can't read signs on stores, or read menus, or even see the crosswalk sign turn and give the "ok" to cross.  Which super power does he use to conquer these foes?
We haven't finished the show yet.  I'm sure I'd find more qualms upon examination.  These are just some of the things that I think about from my side of the visually impaired table.  There may very well be an answer to each of them tucked away inside the expansive Marvel universe somewhere.  But, in my opinion, being a regular guy with four amped senses and zero sight does not a superhero make.  That's probably why he gets his butt kicked so much.

Saturday, April 25, 2015

Prologue

I tried the private blog for my innermost thoughts, designated for my eyes only.
I tried the public blog that was super structured and somewhat impersonal.

But I watched a movie recently, and I think I'm ready to handle the public free-form blog.
Here's what I've got going for me this time:

  • I'm no longer an angsty, whiny teenager.
  • I am reasonably skilled with spelling and grammar.
  • I'm honest, but not insensitive.
  • I've got quirkiness to spare, but not so much it's off-putting.
That being said, I'm not going viral anytime soon.  I have a few things going against me:
  • My life is far from drama-filled.
  • I'm not super smokin' hot with an Instagram packed full of scintillating selfies.
  • I've never been popular in any format, and I don't see the universe doing a 180 now.
  • I'm not as well versed as I could be in the realm of optimal exploitation of social media.
I guess I could beef those lists up a bit, but they both have four, making them even, so that looks nice.  I'll stop there.

Wednesday, April 15, 2015

Chronicle of Furbabies, Part II

(moved from partner blog, originally published 4-15-15)

Spring has sprung.  Warmer weather means several things at the shelter.  (1) The kitties are shedding.  More fur is flying and more hairballs are appearing.  (2) More kittens!  We've already seen little guys from 2 days old to 4 months old.  (3) More turn-over, as more people are going out to adopt.

I don't post every cat I see.  Just the ones that have a story or a face that I'd like to keep for the memory banks.  You won't see many of the kittens here, as they get fostered rather quickly.  That means that I usually only see them once before they get scooped up.  It's the loves like Weston and Midnight that I cherish.  (My current loves are Noodles, who just got adopted, and Frosting - food naming of both cats is purely coincedental).

A shorter entry this time.  There will be another, though.




Carlie - in my last post, I told Norm's story.  He was scared and defensive and slowly improved.  When he went into foster, that improvement saw a huge growth spurt, and he got adopted shortly thereafter.  Carlie reminds me of his story.  She, too, is declawed, and came in as scared and defensive as can be.  She hid behind the bed in the back of her cage, hissed at the mere sight of other cats, and threatened to bite if you fussed around her too much.  I've included three pictures of Carlie, who I call my Carlie-bird, because the pictures alone are evidence of her slow improvement.  She is still moody, with good days and bad days, but I take my time with Carlie and have learned what she likes and what she doesn't.  She has become so much more comfortable at the shelter and has given me more trust over time.  I know that if my little Carlie-bird got a foster, she would be one amazing little girl.

10/23/15 UPDATE: Carlie was adopted by an elderly woman who loved her immensely, but had to return Carlie shortly thereafter.  She became too ill to take care of Carlie.  She is now back with us at the shelter, but she's in one of the larger crates with things just the way she likes them, and her attitude is the best I've ever seen it.  I'm still super hopeful for my Carlie-bird.

Carlie's first shelter pic
Carlie's second shelter pic
My Carlie-bird!

 Dugan - this guy was a shelter favorite.  He was a complete package.  Laid-back, but so talkative with his manly, raspy meow!  He absolutely loved his wet food, and I quickly discovered that filets were his favorite kind.  I would give him extras every time.  Dugan would give his signature meow every time he'd see you, even if he was super sleepy from eating two helpings of wet food.  He was outgoing, ready to come out of his cage and wander around while you tidied up, but also a snuggler who loved to be pet when you had the time.  He was adopted the second week of April.  <3

Dugan
Frosting - His name is just as sweet as he is.  I call Frosting my little Valentine, because you can see his pink skin on parts of his ears and his face due to his pure white fluff.  When he first came in, we thought he'd be a shy guy, hiding in his littler box.  As soon as his paws hit the floor, he was mister personality, full of confidence and affection.  He likes to be held and cuddled, loves to rub against your legs and leave some white Frosting fur behind, and he's a laid-back boy.  Even when the other cats hiss at him, he just takes it in stride and keeps going.  We found out that he is FIV positive, but like Theo, he is one of the best cats I've come across.

10/23/15 UPDATE: Frosting was adopting in no time at all, and it was one of those bittersweet adoptions - I was overjoyed to see him get a home, but so sad to see him go!

Frosting
Frosting; uncooperative for pictures
Frosting
Frosting; getting reading to scratch
Frosting getting some love (formatting wouldn't cooperate)



Hanson - another good boy, he was a hilarious, stocky bundle of love.  Hanson had a had-pitched meow and a spring in his step.  The two things that got him the most excited, though, were yummy wet food and when you got into his cage.  He would wander around while you refilled his food and scooped his litter, but anytime I got into his cage to sort the sheets in the back or scrub the shelf, he would barrel in, all excited, meowing and headbutting me.  This adorable guy was adopted several weeks ago.

Hanson
Noodles - I think it's safe to say that I was in love with this cat.  He was adopted last week, and it was one of those bittersweet times where I was so happy for him to find his forever home but simultaneously devastated that I wouldn't see him anymore.  Noodles was a regular black cat, but we soon discovered that he was a whiner.  He was frequently whining while in his cage, and with some volume.  The whining would decrease when he was roaming around, but not completely.  He wasn't a fan of wet food and toys were just okay.  When I picked him up, however, the whining stopped and the purrs began.  From then on, I would let him roam for a while each time, but I would also always pick him up and snuggle him.  Even with a face full of Noodles fur, I was in heaven.  We were fast snuggle buddies.  He would even clutch at you when you attempted to put him back in his cage.  It wasn't that he dug in and scratched or that he squirmed and became difficult to place.  It was that it broke your heart so completely that he just wanted to be held and wanted so badly to not go back in - that's why it was so hard to put him up every time.  He just snuggled closer and clutched at you.  I could have carried him around for a lifetime.

Me & Noodles
Me & Noodles

Me & Noodles



O'Reilly - his name always put the auto parts company jingle in my head, but this was one great cat.  He was on the smaller side, but also on the fluffier side.  He absolutely adored attention, and would stand up against your leg to get more attention.  He was adopted pretty quickly, but I always loved being asked for attention by O'Reilly.

O'Reilly, instructing you where to pet him
O'Reilly, distracted by doggies